One of the "side-effects" of cruising full time as a couple is that you and your partner are together all the time! You share the same small living area at the same time and even though this might be a situation that you fully expected before the big adventure, it is not an easy feat to be around each other 24/7, no matter how much you love each other or how compatible you are. Even when in perfect harmony, break-downs, ominous weather, power hungry officials, language barriers with locals, rationing food and water and the relatively primitive lifestyle can put strain on any relationship. Compare it to a couple living together on shore and working in the same office, driving a semi together or being retired under the same roof, with added complications…
A 35' catamaran is big enough for two people: you each have your own hull! © Liesbet Collaert
Of course, the good things are shared as well and it isn’t all arguments and challenges, but before deciding to go cruising together for a long time, you and your other half better be sure you get along well and are plenty compatible. Once removed from your familiar habitat, family and close friends, your partner is the only one to fully connect with months or years at the time. He/she will listen to you, explore and sail with you, comfort you and be your companion, 24/7. More relationships than sailboats end up on the rocks, and a lot of cruisers we meet are in their second long-term relationship or marriage! Therefore it is important that you each can be independent and find personal interests and things to do. Not only will the “alone time” benefit you both; you will also have something new to talk about!





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